The Family – by Kind Communication

Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/12/16/the-family/ This is the second part in my three part series on “The Holidays”.  Last time we looked at giving and getting more than presents this year.  And now I’m going to look at the tradition of seeing the Continue reading The Family – by Kind Communication

AltBib.Com Hits 5 Million Database Loads (Queries)

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My earliest sister project of Wiki World Order (it’s predecessor in fact), has just passed a silly, self-created benchmark after four and a half years. AltBib.Com currently has 6,679 Reference Links, with 14,738 Tags/Keywords, 81,862 Taggings (connections between links and Continue reading AltBib.Com Hits 5 Million Database Loads (Queries)

Giving and Getting more than Presents this Year – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/12/01/giving-and-getting-more-than-presents-this-year/ Thanksgiving and Hanukkah are just behind us, while Christmas is just a mere three weeks away.  We’ve entered that time of year again…the holidays.  Three big traditions come up in my life around this time: getting and giving Continue reading Giving and Getting more than Presents this Year – by Kind Communication

My Opinion of Authority (1999)

Recently found college essay, revealing my early resistance to appeals to authority… When I was younger, I was under the impression that figures of authority were different from ordinary people. People in high positions ranging from the Vice President of Continue reading My Opinion of Authority (1999)

Safety – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/11/17/safety/ Feeling safe is essential to resolving conflicts.  But what do I mean by feeling safe?  Certainly it means freedom from physical danger like violence or abuse.  But it also means freedom from emotional danger like judgments, put downs, Continue reading Safety – by Kind Communication

Radical Honesty – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/11/03/radical-honesty/ Most people think “radical honesty” must involve telling your friends, loved ones, and co-workers all the worst judgments, criticisms, and blame that you’re mind can produce.  ”You want me to be radically honest??” a client of mine protests. Continue reading Radical Honesty – by Kind Communication

The One Thing to Become More Compassionate – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/10/20/the-one-thing-to-become-more-compassionate/ Do you ever wish you could be more compassionate?  Wish you weren’t as critical of others, or of yourself?  Luckily there’s really only one thing you need to do to become more compassionate.  Have empathy.  Empathy is the Continue reading The One Thing to Become More Compassionate – by Kind Communication

Four Questions to Know if Nonviolent Communication is What You Want – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/10/06/four-questions-to-know-if-nonviolent-communication-is-needed/ I’ve been asked by several people “when should I use Nonviolent Communication?”  And I used to answer with a resounding “Always! Anytime!”  But I finally noticed that this only reinforced a “have to” mentality.  Now people were burdened Continue reading Four Questions to Know if Nonviolent Communication is What You Want – by Kind Communication

The Three Questions to Reveal Your Motivation – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/09/22/the-three-questions-to-reveal-your-motivation/ In Nonviolent Communication you strive to act out of your needs.  Everything you do, you want to do it because it serves your needs, including your need to help others.  If you can do this, then you’ll experience Continue reading The Three Questions to Reveal Your Motivation – by Kind Communication

The Three Steps to Overcoming Disappointment – by Kind Communication

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Re-posted From: http://KindCommunication.org/2013/09/09/the-three-steps-to-overcoming-disappointmen/ You can’t always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, well you just might find, you get what you need. -Rolling Stones Have you always gotten everything you’ve ever wanted?  No?  Well you’re in good company. Continue reading The Three Steps to Overcoming Disappointment – by Kind Communication